As we all know, love life is not just about sex. Much of it revolves around relationship conflicts, communication patterns or attachment issues.

I advise couples based on their love life, their questions and their conflicts. My approach here is that problems can be starting points for new developments, especially in the sexual sphere. However, tensions can also be unbearable, especially when old wounds cause repeated unrest. Together, we get to the bottom of these issues.

I mainly work with EFT (Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy), but of course elements of Sexocorporel and systemic couples therapy also flow into my counselling sessions.

Couples therapy is also suitable for non-heterosexual monogamous couples.

• LGBTQIA*
  …and other letters can simplify or complicate life. For me, it goes without saying that I treat people with openness – regardless of their gender perception and sexual orientation(s). In this respect, I welcome all identities and codes of attraction that may be hidden behind letters: I advise people based on their concerns. I regard the body as an instrument that needs to be learned to play with pleasure.

   

• Singles
  Even single people experience relationship difficulties with other people, whether in terms of unfulfilled desires for partnership, sex, intimacy or children. There is a harsh climate on Tinder and similar platforms: putting yourself out there is a conflicting endeavour, as there is always a soul hidden behind it. I can also offer my support with such problems.

   

• Polyamory and open relationships
  

  There are many different forms of open relationships, but they are always highly individual in their respective forms. Entering into polyamorous relationships and other forms of open relationships requires not only courage and trust, but also a lot of relationship work.
  
  It is possible to love very openly, but it is necessary to maintain a balance that goes beyond the traditional understanding of relationships. It is particularly challenging to keep in step with all the dynamics that arise in a dance between three or more people. I would be delighted to support you in your endeavours.